Husband dating another woman
In other words, the relationship is basically based on lies, so it will never work out.The next day, I received an email from the other woman (the one who had left her husband) telling me that she was really offended by my comment, because she and her boyfriend were both still married and cheating on their spouses when they first met.
Any woman who finds herself in this situation has my sympathy.As a result I have not had to see or deal with this woman except to listen as my children have described her comings and goings after those few times they have been in her presence.I admit we have had our share of laughs, some deservedly, at her expense.A little more than four years ago, my husband left me for another woman. A relative advised me to get on a plane, fly to Hong Kong — where my husband was spending months at a time for work — and fight for my marriage. I was scared for the future and what life would be like without him. While we had once been unable to get enough of each other, by this point we could barely tolerate each other’s company and walked through our lives as business partners more than anything else. When I first learned about her existence after seeing suspicious texts on his phone, I was determined to find out whatever I could — who she was, how long she knew my husband and, most important, what she wanted from him. In a handful of conversations, I ordered her to leave my husband alone. Instead she grew more steadfast in her position; she said he was hers now and there was nothing I could do to change that. During what would be his last visit home, he announced he was leaving me and I dropped to my knees and urged my cheating husband to stay. By that point our marriage had been deteriorating for years.
He was later flown by a helicopter to a burn center in Cincinnati.